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Dominance + submission = Ultimate Romance

How difficult it must be, for those in the vanilla world, to understand this concept. The satin blindfold that feels like warm liquid as it floats into place, sends me into a heightened awareness, reminding me of the tantalizing trust I have in the man who places it there.  Are there words that can adequately…

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Weeds – DOMINATION, BONDAGE, SPANKING – Thank You!

Sunday night I tuned in, anticipating another funny, entertaining, quirky episode of Weeds.  (If you weren’t fortunate enough to see it –!!!  Read On) What I got instead, was a tiny, tantalizing taste of a delicious Dominant, who could not only wield his weapon, but had the attitude, grace and style of a Master.  If…

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The LOOK – The Conjurer’s Unspoken Domination

Do you know what I’m talking about?  The Look.  The glint in His eye that silently says —  “When I get you home…” I’m out to dinner with friends.  It’s been a lovely evening.  The wine is flowing, the food delicious, the conversation comfortable and easy.  I am laughing softly at an anecdote, and glance…

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BONDAGE – The Joy Of The Rope (Or Chain, Or Ribbon!)

I sink into the feel of the soft nylon rope, and it tells me I must be still.  Wriggling, squirming, doing my best to relieve myself of its restriction will be in vain.  And might even lead to a hard swat on my vulnerable derriere if my Dominant thinks I’m resisting too much. Surrendering to…

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The Bondage Of The Mind

When I awoke this morning, the poetic prose of the Mysterious Dom (see previous post – In The Dom’s Own Words) was floating through my mind, like a golden leaf hovering on a gentle breeze, then drifting to the ground on a cool autumn day.  When I am in the whirlwind of writing a book, the…

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In The Dom’s Own Words

Sometimes, in the middle of a perfectly tedious day, there can come across your path, a touch of wanton wickedness.  An unexpected erotic jolt, that causes the sweet submissive’s butterflies to spring to life.  A deliciously decadent email popped into my inbox, and read as follows: Your blog is quite delicious.  Providing discipline to unruly…

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Erotic Dominance – Domestic Discipline –

vs. the domineering husband/boyfriend, in the vanilla world.  I was just listening to a dear friend of mine, complaining about her bossy, selfish, uncaring husband.  Personally, I think he’s just a bully.  But it makes me wonder how different it would be for her, if he was an erotic Dominant, and she, his sweet submissive….

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LOVE, LUST AND D/s CHEMISTRY

Have you ever been so sexually connected to another, than you never wanted to leave the bed?  Is that chemistry?  Lust?  Is it the BDSMelement that strikes that chord?  The erotic Domination that sets your heart on fire? Are chemistry and lust the same thing?  Or is it love? Since the dawn of time, humans…

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TIRED OF THE STEREOTYPES – ARE YOU?

Why do movies and television, more often than not, portray us (and by us I mean those involved in the D/s lifestyle) as damaged? Dominants, submissive women, those who enjoy spanking and bondage. Do you recall Secretary?  The movie starring James Spader?  If you haven’t seen it, it might be worth your time.  It was…

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Aspirin? No thanks. A Dominant cures this sub’s headache!

Have you ever had a day that made you feel as if you were traveling through The Twilight Zone?  You were late – then early – even got the actual day wrong.  Misunderstandings at every turn.  You lost your keys, then found them exactly where you looked a few minutes earlier.  So frustrating and exasperating…

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