In the hallowed halls of D/s blogs lives a Dominant who is a poet, a lyricist, a visionary; who sees beyond the trite and mundane into the soul of the Dominant/submissive dance.  In one of his recent posts, he wrote:

“The art of seduction is knowing what she really wants and slowly giving it to her in a way that takes her breath away” 
Romantic Dominant

What then, is the art of submission?

The art of submission is knowing when he truly wants obedience and when he does not, and at those times when he does not, gently defying him in a way that sets his heart on fire.

Maggie Carpenter